Help! My hair is dry!

Hi everyone! My hair is sucking up any kind of moisturizer I put in it. Any suggestions for a nice, heavy moisturizing conditioner? I am still LOVING my hair cut which is a good thing, but I have to admit that I am getting bored – I really want to color my hair, but I am going to fight the urge and just wait until I am completely natural before doing that. Also, I have discovered that I can no longer roller set my hair; I have way too much new growth. I tried to do so a couple weeks ago and the result wasn’t anything to write home about. So I am back to blow drying and flat ironing it. At night I have been rolling it on hard, pink rollers and in the morning I wrap it up while I take a shower, comb it out and go. Every once and a while I have to re-flat iron the back b/c it gets pretty kinky J. So yeah that is pretty much it. Nothing else really to report. I am still truckin’ along and not really getting fed up with my hair quite yet. So stay tuned and Happy Holidays!

Update –December 5, 2007

Hey everyone! Things are going well on my hair journey. The cut definitely boosted my hair confidence. Since the back is shorter some of it is all natural which is kind of cool (and interesting to deal with). My next step is to see how my natural hair curls up. So any ideas of product suggests would be greatly appreciated—especially products that come in smaller sizes. I am still going to continue with co-washing every other week because the cold weather is doing a number on my tresses. This weekend is my company holiday party so I might try a curlier do—so I’ll try setting my shorter style and see what happens.

New Haircut –November 18, 2007

Sooooo as I mentioned in my last post, my hair desperately needed a trim and a pick me up. Well it got to the point where I couldn’t wait until I went to Philadelphia. Anyways, I called up my stylist that I have been going to on and off for the past 10+ years. I explained to her what my goal is (going natural) and she was like come on in and I can take care of you. So I went in on Saturday and let her wash, blow dry, press and curl and cut my hair and LOVE IT. I told her I wanted a bob, something kind of modern and she delivered. The only problem I have is the amount of products in my hair—it feels tacky and kinda greasy. She also told me how to fix my color issue. I had a blue-black rinse in my hair and once the color faded it left a greenish tint due to the base of the color. She told me to try a brown rinse that has a red base and the red will cancel out the green hue. So I am going to wash my hair in a few days and put the rinse in. I will update this post with those pictures as well. So things are great in terms of my hair journey and I am feeling a lot better about continuing!

The Naps Revolt! – November 13, 2007

So the naps revolted yall! I did my hair on Friday as I have been doing it using only the E’tae products and something just wasn’t right. My hair was sucking up any type of moisture I put in it and just wasn’t cooperating. So after consulting with my “coach” I decided to wash it yet again last night and try mixing up my wash routine with what I used to do. Below is what I did last night.

Co-washed: I’ve tried co-washing before so I gave it another shot since my hair has been craving moisture. I used the Suave Humecto conditioner I have in my closet and it worked well.

Deep conditioner: So I allowed the chemist side of me to come out!. I mixed up some KeraCare Humecto Creme Conditioner, Carol’s Daughter Khoret Amen hair oil, and some E’tae Aloe conditioner. I nuked it in the microwave for 10 seconds, concentrated my concoction on my roots and then through the ends, and sat under the dryer for about 30 minutes (had a cap on). This mixture smelled so good!

Roller set: I roller set my hair with KeraCare Leave-In Conditioner, water and some oil.

Blew out my roots.

Flat ironed just my roots with my Chi flat iron.

Everyone told me that my hair would grow to like different products and continually change so I guess this is to be expected. Either way, this combination definitely did the trick even thought it took a few hours. My hair is soft like it used to be and more importantly it is straight and I am no longer freaking out! Check out the pictures (my hair had more body before I left the house –rain is not my friend).

Hair Update – November 5, 2007

Hello my hair friends, Ms. Nappy is back! Sorry it’s been a while, but there really hasn’t been much to report. Business has been same as usual. One thing I have noticed is that I have split ends and it’s time for another trim. I’m not alarmed because the timing is about right. I had my last trim when I went to E’tae Salon in September. I made another appointment to get my hair done again at E’tae around Turkey Day (*gobble*) so I am excited! Here are some pics of my progress thus far. My hair is getting pretty long and all of the pieces that were breaking off are growing back so I have fly aways all over the place lol. (Yay – I’ve made it a little over three months!)

Rough Week – October 19, 2007

Hello everyone! This has been a rough hair week to say the least. My hair didn’t want to stay straight this week. Wednesday is when all hell broke loose and I really don’t understand why. Argh. Today it got so nappalicious that I had to put my hair piece in lol. I think that I will need to invest in another one now that my natural hair color is visible because it has definitely been a lifesaver. *Sigh* I must say that the natural hair gods are testing my patience this week because it has been a hard one! Hopefully next week will be better. I am praying my hair will cooperate. But other than that, things are pretty normal. I am still only using E’tae products . The breakage has stopped and now I just experience normal shedding, so that is definitely a blessing! That’s all for now. Have a great weekend!

A nap is tryin' to curl!

So I am sitting here in bed, and I reach to scratch my neck and lo and behold I find "the little nap that could" tryin' to curl up! I am soooo excited. Maybe there is some hope for my naps. Just wanted to share my excitement. I think my coach is proud that I am chuggin' along!

Hair Update –October 9, 2007

Hello everyone! Miss me? Well there is nothing bad to report. My hair is still responding well to my products and weekly routine. It is really starting to grow which is great. I get so excited when I can get more of my relaxed ends trimmed off! The first picture is of my hair after blow drying it. Scary—yes I know. The next two pictures are two days later after the flat iron. This weekend I flat ironed my hair and rolled it up right after that. I unrolled my hair about 2 hours later and it was perfect. So I think I am going to stick with this routine for a while. But all in all, so far so good—people definitely can’t tell that I haven’t put a relaxer in my hair since July, unless I tell them! :o)

So natural hair isn't corporate (according to Glamour magazine)?

Check out this article. It's sad that people are still quite bold with their racist thoughts and beliefs and really have no shame about what comes out of their mouths. SMH. Thanks for sending me this article K!

Wash Day—October 1, 2007

Hello everyone! So I washed my hair on Friday (9/28/07) and again used my E’tae products. This time I used Nutrient, Aloe, and Preserve along with my Creme of Nature shampoo. As expected my hair came out soft. I then blew my hair dry and I must say I did much better this time! Instead of curling it, I flat ironed it so I could ge the roots really straight. Let me tell you, Ithat really worked! Before flat ironing it, I used some Buttershine to protect my hair from the heat. I wrapped my hair up on Friday night and it came out cute on Saturday (pictures are below—I am wearing the blue top). I would have preferred more body but I think it looked cute regardless.

For my Saturday night event, I did use the curling iron because I didn’t want my hair to be bone straight. I’ll post those pictures soon.

Last night, I rolled up hair on hard rollers and it is cute and bouncy today! See the pictures below. All in all, things are well again this week. I’ll keep yall posted as usual. Have a great week!